What Is Your Cupid Doing?

What’s up, lovebirds and love-seekers? With Valentine’s Day right around the corner, it’s hard not to have love on the brain. We all crave that special someone who can make our hearts go pitter-patter. But hey, I’ve been doing some reading and writing on the subject, and I thought I’d share a few thoughts that might resonate with you wherever you’re at in your love journey.

LOOKING FOR LOVE?

So, let’s talk about how you’re looking for love. When you want something, you don’t start off assuming it’s impossible to find, right? It’s like when you’re on the hunt for that perfect outfit. You envision it in your mind, and then you hit the stores until you find it. But here’s the kicker: Can you afford it? If not, are you willing to put in the work to save up for it? Would you scour fashion magazines or even consider getting it tailor-made?

Now, let’s swap out that outfit desire for your quest for love. You start by knowing exactly what you want. Just like that outfit, you believe you can find it—it’s just a matter of time and effort. Does this person have the qualities I’m looking for? Let’s try spending some time together and see how it feels. By exploring and testing the waters, you eventually find someone who fits you like a glove and makes you feel divine. And once you’ve found that perfect match, your mind relaxes, knowing you don’t have to keep searching. You’ve found it, my friend.

To be ready for love is simpler than you think, but you’ve got to let go of the resistance, misconceptions, and fears that are cluttering up your mind. Remember what they say, “Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened for you” (Matthew 7:7).

KEEPING LOVE ALIVE? 
Now, let’s talk about keeping the love alive. Did you know that passion and romance can still sizzle in couples who have been together for ages? The secret? They act like they’re having a passionate affair with each other! They tease, flirt, and keep the excitement going. Remember those gestures, touches, and deep kisses from the early stages of love? Well, it’s time to bring them back, baby! Create an atmosphere of playfulness and keep discovering new ways to turn your beloved on. That’s the secret sauce that keeps the love flame burning bright!

STRUGLING WITH YOUR LOVE?

But hold up, Valentine’s Day isn’t just for couples. It can be tough for singles who feel like love is only for fairy tales. Thanks to Hollywood movies and social media, we’ve got these unrealistic expectations for what should happen on this day. But you know what? Many of those couples you see out there may be struggling behind closed doors. Research has shown that singles can be perfectly content when they have a strong and supportive network of friends. So, if you’re flying solo, remember that the grass isn’t always greener on the other side. Call up your pals, throw a party, have a dinner or a get-together, and celebrate your amazing qualities and accomplishments. Laugh, dance, and let each other know how truly special you are. Not in the mood for a party? How about indoor rock climbing or a hiking trip with me in SEDONA? https://rosanegibson.com/in-person-sessions/

And afterwards, go to the movies and have a blast!

BROKEN HEARTED? 
Now, for those of you nursing a broken heart, I’ve got your back, my friend. Here’s the deal: unfriend your ex on social media, un-tag, remove their photos, and unfollow them. It’s time to cut the constant reminders and move on faster. Oh, and I’ve got something special for you. Check out my book, “Breakout from Your Breakup.” https://rb.gy/lfa88

It’s packed with activities and exercises that’ll help you heal and close that painful chapter, allowing you to create a beautiful story that is your life.

FEELING STUCK IN LOVE?
And last but not least, for those of you feeling stuck in a relationship, don’t lose hope! There’s love out there for everyone, I promise. The NewYou-Factor assessment is a fantastic tool that can help you figure out why you’re stuck and guide you on how to break free, whether it’s with or without your partner. It’s all about finding the path to a happier you. Book a session https://rosanegibson.com/be-happy/

So, my dear Cupids, I hope these little nuggets of wisdom help you navigate the world of love. Remember, love is out there, and you deserve every bit of it. Whether you’re looking, keeping, healing, or un-stucking, you’ve got this!

Embrace love, embrace yourself, and have a fantastic Valentine’s Day!